When I say love. It is a verb, an active choice to be demonstrated, in patience, kindness, respect, valuing the other in generosity of time and resources to benefit others which may be of detriment to one self. It's selfless and relentless seeking of what's best for the others, and if separation is best, it accepts and follows though. Love is universal yet ideal, since we are only human and a broken race. But in the end, let love triumph , for it does stand the test of time. t's with a heavy heart I breathe, I love you.